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Masturbation, how to pamper your body properly

The guide for women who want to enjoy their lives to the fullest without depending on a man.

Experience unlimited pleasure

We at Mister Size have made it our mission to ensure that you have at least the same fun factor during safe sex as you do during unprotected intercourse. We give everything every day to make the experience of sex with a condom perfect for you. The condom is so popular because it is one of the safest contraceptives around and not only protects you from a possible pregnancy, but also from contracting STDs. But what is the safest way not to get pregnant during "sex"? Exactly, masturbation, here you are the boss of your feelings and don't need to waste any thoughts on possible side-effects after the lovemaking. Everything revolves around you and your body. The tender devotion to your body can sweeten your everyday life in many ways.

Find out what you like

There is a moment in the life of almost every young woman, even in her teens, when she first feels the need to explore her own body. This moment is usually long before the first partnership. One notices that with some touches on the abdomen one feels a very strange, but nevertheless pleasant feeling. It feels good to rub against something, be it the washcloth, the bicycle seat, or a pillow that you move back and forth between your legs. Young women usually develop a preference for a certain type of stimulation already at this age.

Unfortunately, not everywhere is still openly dealt with the subject of masturbation in women, in men it is normal from time to time to lay hands on themselves, whereas women, when this topic comes up, usually react somewhat ashamed and quickly try to talk about something else. However, masturbation is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. No one knows what you need as well as you do! So there is absolutely nothing in the way of your journey of exploring your body. Women who have fun with themselves or their toy more often are proven to be more balanced and relaxed. The greatest thing about having sex with yourself is that you can do it when, where and how you want. There are no limits to your imagination. The greatest thing about masturbating, however, is you never go unsatisfied. By constantly testing what stimulates you and makes you especially hot, you can also better communicate to your partner how best to bring you to climax. This way, you will never go empty-handed during sex with your partner.

Masturbation as compensation

First of all, it is very important to take enough time. Plan the fun with yourself specifically in your daily routine. Take your time and enjoy every second. Especially if you don't have a steady partner, it is important to satisfy yourself regularly. This way you can reduce stress and increase your personal happiness. An orgasm releases an incredible amount of happy hormones, which help you to always be in a good mood and balanced in life.

Tips and tricks for the perfect orgasm with yourself

First, gently massage your clitoris until you are completely wet. Now you can pamper yourself with your hands by inserting one or more fingers into your wet vulva and moving them rhythmically, with the other hand you can continue rubbing your clitoris to reach climax faster. If you are not wet enough, do not use creams or body oils as lubricants. These can have a very bad effect on the vaginal flora and / or lead to allergies. For more fun, we recommend our water-based, organic lubricant from Mister Size.

With our lubricant you can insert your fingers or even your toy better and nothing stands in the way of a perfect orgasm. Don't be afraid to add a toy, such as a vibrator, to your sex game if your fingers don't reliably bring you to climax. There are a variety of sex toys that will put you in absolute ecstasy in no time.

Decorate your sex game with dirty thoughts. There are absolutely no limits for you. You can give free rein to your imagination and also your fingers. Get in the mood, wear sexy lingerie and watch in the mirror as you pamper yourself with your vibrator. Even though it may be a little strange at first, many women get a kick out of watching themselves have sex all the way to orgasm.

Use your whole body as a playground, caressing kissing and licking each other if you like it. Some turns on to let her finger gently slide into her butt and stimulate herself so, with steady movements additional anal. Our Mister Size lubricating gel is also recommended here.

Variety is everything

Be eager to experiment and spoil yourselves not only in bed. For example, you can sit on a chair with your legs apart and ride your vibrator. While showering, pamper your clitoris with the jet of the shower and at the same time insert your finger into your vagina, you will experience a spectacular orgasm. The only important thing is never to put the jet directly into your vagina, even if it feels fantastic, you run the risk of destroying the natural vaginal flora.

Your thoughts are your playground

During masturbation you can let yourself go completely, there are absolutely no limits to your imagination. Only you control the porn in your head. You decide with whom you do it and how. Whether you are having sex with a man or a woman, maybe the hot neighbor next door is licking you? Are you part of an orgy in which everyone satisfies everyone else? Whatever turns you on, it's okay. There are no fantasies that are too crazy or wrong.

If your head cinema isn't enough, you can of course take your tablet and movie to help. It can be so stimulating to watch others on the way to orgasm and to masturbate yourself. If porn for women is too boring for you, feel free to resort to something harder. Whatever turns you on is suitable.

Positive aspects of masturbation

If you are stressed by everyday life and just can't relax in the evening, spontaneously let your hands wander down into your pants and gently stroke your clitoris. If you are excited and wet enough, insert your fingers or your vibrator deep into your vagina until you are overcome by a brilliant orgasm. All the load and restlessness you have been carrying inside will turn into deep relaxation and satisfaction. The tons of happy hormones released during your orgasm will make you fall asleep relaxed and full of positive feelings.

Masturbating is also the perfect medicine for period pains, the intimate muscles are strengthened and blood circulation is stimulated. Thus, masturbation also has an antispasmodic effect.

The no go's of masturbation

Even though almost everything is allowed during your sex games, there are still some no go's.

Never insert everyday objects into your vagina or anus. It may be tempting to do it with a cucumber, or the style of your hairbrush, but here you should really only use specially made toys. It is not uncommon to end up in the emergency room after the pleasure. So stay away from unsuitable everyday objects!

Lotions and creams are not good for your vaginal flora, use only explicitly suitable lubricants, such as our lubricant gel from MISTER SIZE.

Always clean your toys thoroughly after use, so you can prevent the formation of germs.

And now, have fun!

Mister Size
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